I’d a lunch big date with some guy I’d exchanged a couple of email messages and many a g-chat with. We even Skyped-which I’ll be composing a blog post onâ¦we recommend Skype or iChat with a night out together when you waste time doing all your locks, especially if you’re juggling lot’s of times. For reals.
Anyways, all had been good regarding the “No Catfish Here top”. I appeared as if myself, the guy appeared as if him, we chuckled and determined we’re able to manage an authentic time.
I found myself timely, he had been belated (whyyyyyyyyyâ¦stop getting LATER you guys)â¦and he texted me personally, “merely walking up!”
It had been flowing rain, performed I mention that? And freezing, at the least for Southern California standards. And he ended up being using flip-flops. SHOES. The.Horror.
I hate to appear very judgemental (far too late!) but as on-line daters, isn’t that everything we perform? JUDGE! Assess the most important e-mail, basic call, the fb judge, searching for what exactly is wrongâ¦instead of what is correct? Or perhaps is that simply meâ¦haha.
Today, I am not probably defeat round the bush right here. In my opinion a guy sporting flip flops in the torrential rain is actually obnoxious. I might imagine exactly the same about a girlâ¦but where We live, flip-flops and shoes never ever have set aside forever and I understand I’ve been guilty of a grocery shop run-in flip flops during a storm. All of the dudes i will be attracted to are surfers, or outdoorsy and flip-flops and trousers are kind of their particular uniform. Do I wish he had the presence of brain to put up actual footwear? Why yes, yes i really do. Performed the guy need a pedicure? Yes, yes the guy did-all that outdoorsy-ness i love so much will not leave your own feet searching too sensuous, obviously.
But I digress.
We chuckled a great deal and he is actually devastatingly handsome. He has got impressive dining table manners and asked ideal questions. Things was heading well because soon after we ate, he asked easily planned to go to another destination to find some pumpkin cheesecake. We forgot about his shoes and ceased judgingâ¦and just had a great time.
Whether or not he could be some one I want to continue online lesbian milf dating has actually yet to be determined, in case situations keep working really, possibly we’ll have to get him a pair of Chuck Taylor’s for Christmas and burn the flip-flops. With really love, however. And an alibi. ????